Catching Them Cheating Doesn't Have To Spell The End! Here's Why!

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Not every relationship has to fall apart because you find out your partner is cheating.

Yes, one's initial impulse is usually to start snapping your fingers and flailing your arms while righteously screeching "It's ovah!" but here are some reasons you might want to rethink that approach:

*You're convinced that this was a one-shot and they will never indulge in such an indiscretion again, so you don't mind leaving it behind and moving on with two fingers crossed and the other hand available for sex acts.

*You know it was just sex, nothing meaningful that really can affect your bond in the larger picture.

*You've noticed your sex life together waning for a while, and you actually worried that you might not have been doing enough to keep them satisfied. Go on, blame the victim!

*You love the person so much you're willing to forgive them this little problem, which you vow to work on with them, even if it involves lingerie and three-ways.

*You figure, "If I dump them for someone else, there's no way to guarantee they'll be faithful."

*You're cheating, too.


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Bliss
Bliss

Great movie i love this so much for its story and its great actors and actress who give the movie an almost true to life story. I have watch this film for about 8 time's already with my partner. To tell you honestly he once have tried to be Unfaitful to me then. And the annoying part part is he almost learn to love that girl but sorry to her I still manage to get back my boy. That's love can do!

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Savannah Montgomery
Savannah Montgomery

I'll add another dynamic...why does EVERYONE finally notice you when you're "off the market"?  The one "unattainable" crush notices you now...(yes, I understand the "forbidden love" angle), hopefully your partner understands that this is one you had to get out of your system...and usually the sex isn't as hot (or as worth it) as you imagined...if it is, you both know it.

Stowaway
Stowaway

I've always booted someone who cheats but that does leave you pretty lonely sometimes.

Parka
Parka

Your last reason is the best!! I'm always amazed at how many people are outraged that their partner's cheating even though they're doing it too, they just haven't been caught.

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