When Your Boyfriend Becomes Your Ex Girlfriend

It sounds like an old Maury episode, but it's actually the subject of this week's column, an eye opening romp with promoter/DJ Michael Formika Jones (who's also been known as drag goddess Misstress Formika).

Formika told me told me the above scenario happened to him.

He was dating a guy, who one day surprised him by expressing an interest in transitioning.

They kept the relationship going, and in fact, Formika enjoyed having sex with what he viewed as a cute boy with boobs (though fully aware she was a woman).

But once the transition was complete, Formika realized, "I'm a fag, not a lesbian."

You will be amazed by this story--especially when it gets to the part who the ex-girlfriend went on to sleep with.

And also the bit about how Formika recently hooked up with a female to male transsexual, clearly more piqued by the idea of a man with a vagina than a woman with a vagina.

Read the column. It will change you.

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