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By Rebecca Marx, Monday, Nov. 30 2009 @ 10:00AM
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When the film version of Julie & Julia hit screens in August, Little, Brown, the publishers of Julie Powell's second book, Cleaving: A Story of Marriage, Meat and Obsession, announced that its release would be pushed back to December. According to Little Brown, the delay had nothing to do with Cleaving's content, which concerned Powell's adulterous betrayal of her husband, Eric, whom Julie & Julia (in blog, book, and film) painted in golden, saintly strokes.

But it's hard to read Powell's second book without imagining the film's target audience struggling to rectify their perky (if whiney) screen heroine with the Julie Powell of Cleaving, the one who dispenses gut-churning descriptions of phone sex with her lover ("I had nothing to go on but...the quickening of that wet slapping sound that barely reached the receiver), revels in the bruises he gives her ("The first time he slapped my face...I was bound up in trusses I'd given him"), and later tries to exorcise her demons through a joyless, anonymous pick-up ("What a pretty little whore you are").

Cleaving kicks off in the aftermath of Powell's earlier success, when, she writes, "[i]t was confusing to find myself, so soon after that whirlwind year came to a close, more or less where I'd been before." Powell also finds herself entangled in a torrid, relentlessly selfish affair with an old friend and onetime lover she calls D, something that makes her feel a bit guilty and also in need of distraction from her distraction.

So she runs off to Fleisher's, the renowned Kingston, N.Y., butcher shop, to learn how to break down meat. Powell's at this point extremely long-suffering husband is understandably confused, but as Powell makes repeated metaphorical connections between separating tissue from bone and herself from her lover, it's easy to draw the cynical conclusion that, from the perspective of a writer looking for her second book, she knew exactly what she was doing.

How much you'll enjoy Cleaving depends on how sympathetic you are to Powell's dilemma, which, when it comes down to it, is a bit much to swallow: the act of trying to choose between one's bottomlessly loving husband and one's snakey-sounding lover, all while having the financial freedom to hang out with butchers just for the hell of it, is accompanied by the sound of the world's most miniscule violin.

How much you'll enjoy the book also depends on how much you'll enjoy Powell's voice, which is by turns solipsistic, grating, endlessly self-indulgent, and, worst of all, boring. It's also at times unexpectedly insightful and bracingly honest: Powell certainly doesn't give herself a free pass for her behavior, even as she eagerly obsesses over it. The problem is, honesty and insight can also be found in almost anybody's diary, and it's hard to shake the feeling that Cleaving would have worked better if had remained in the drawer of a bedside table.

For a memoir (or for that matter any narrative) to really succeed, you have to be a willing participant on the protagonist's journey, and Powell isn't someone you'd even want to follow to the corner bodega. She's an untrustworthy tour guide, one who periodically leaves her reader stranded while she wanders off to stare deeply into her navel, ignoring the surrounding landscape. The Fleisher's gang seems like a likeable and colorful bunch, but here they're described mainly through their hair (a frizzy halo here, a porn-star mustache there), and their voices are smothered by Powell's deafening internal dialogue.

Similarly, in the last third of Cleaving--which follows Powell to Argentina, Ukraine, and Tanzania in search of fellow butchers and a suitable ending to her book--the descriptions of the people she meets seem deployed mainly in service of furthering Powell's quest to absolve herself of wrongdoing. When she's nearly raped by a man in Tanzania, Powell writes that his subsequent persecution "was like someone else could see that he was the one who deserved to be punished. Not me, for once."

Part of Julie & Julia's strength was the way in which Child, through her book, absorbed Powell in a subject larger and more interesting than the mundanity of her own life. In Cleaving, almost nothing, be it a hulking cow carcass or a trip to Africa, can wrench Powell's gaze away from herself. Any butcher knows that a dissection calls for a good, sharp knife. The instrument Powell's wielding is depressingly dull. She saws and hacks away, leaving us with a bloody mess.


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Danny says:

yea when I saw the movie all I could think about was that she ends up cheating on her husband. but hey, it's all about finding your happiness.

Posted On: Monday, Nov. 30 2009 @ 10:23AM
Bret Randall says:


What the---! Hold my kidneys and shiver me livers---and stay away from my giblets: Lisa Powell is on the move with a meat cleaver of solipsism, heading straight to a bookstore near you!

Uh-huh.

Where to even begin?

I never saw the movie--that lovefest of good feeling with Julia and Julie and Julie's wonderful, caring husband and their extraordinary marriage. For all those who made the book and the movie a rousing, national (and international?) literary, cinematic and, most of all, it seems, financial success, here's the real bottom line:

You've been had

What a deft, cynical move by Little Brown to let the book and film play out---to the point of pushing back the publication date of "Cleaving" to the very day when the last theater in America ends the film's run and ships the film cans back to the distributor.

It is only then that millions of (mostly women) book lovers and moviegoers learn that they've been had.
Is this another scandal on the cultural landscape? Get James Frey on the phone---seems there's someone who's bested him in the Deception department.

Interesting. I was in Borders bookstore on Park Ave and 57th a couple months ago, and picked up "Julie and Julia' (err, that is the title, right?). And I noticed that, in the first few pages, Powell makes a point of noting--several times---that she's an athiest.

That's odd, I thought.

This is a book about cooking, right? I put the book back on the shelf and walked away.

Now it's all clear to me.

Last night, I was attending a small Anglican church service on East 87th Street, and in the little program accompanying the service was a quote "attributed to" G.K. Chesterton. It said: "When a man (or woman) stops believing in God, he doesn't then believe in nothing. He believes anything."

Look, it was Powell's choice to go out of her way to declare her athiesm in the first several pages of her previous book.But this announced worldview seems to have led her down the hapless path of "carefree" adultery, sado-masochistic sex (trussed up, indeed!) and all the rest of it---after deceiving the American public---and the world-- with the fiction of a wonderful marriage--which she knew would sell books. And, apparently, movie tickets.

James Frey would be proud.


Bret Randall
New York, NY

Posted On: Monday, Nov. 30 2009 @ 12:54PM
Elizabeth says:

Julie Powell lost me as a fan when in J/J she called Republicans "pure evil" and served them a dessert she had accidentally dropped in the street and scooped back into the dish, one that she remarked was potentially laden with shards of ceramic and antifreeze. Not funny, Julie. This hateful attitude towards others of differing views says a lot about her.
It makes me sick that she is making money off of the shared fondness our country has for Julia Child. Poor Julia must be spinning in her grave.
I won't be supporting Powell with my book or movie ticket money.

Posted On: Wednesday, Dec. 9 2009 @ 2:40PM
Insignia says:

What you think about news - GOPers Hold 'Prayercast' to Ask God to Stop Health Reform ?
Wanna hear your opinion

Posted On: Friday, Dec. 18 2009 @ 4:31PM
Katherine W says:

I wanted to comment on the movie Julie and Julia - first, I thought the movie was sort of cute - but that's where I stop with the flattery.

I guess I am very disappointed that all someone has to do is blog, facebook, twitter etc. and they become famous. There used to be a time when book publishing came from extremely hard work and talent. As noted in the case of Julia Childs - Julie Powel will never know such talent.

Oh, and by the way - there is no way that each and every french dish Ms. Powell prepared came out as spectacular as she would have us believe in the movie - I am a cook and there are many kitchen failings in a 365 day period - not just one.

On a more serious note - Computer technology is ruining mankind - in that we are a narcissistic and overly self-indulgent society.

Remember, when Julia Child was trying to fill her time - she wasn't on the internet exposing herself to the world thinking everything she said was witty and clever - she had dignity and class and was private. Not enough healthy barriers in this world as far as I'm concerned.

Put that in your orange roaster and stew on it Ms. Powell.

Posted On: Monday, Jan. 25 2010 @ 1:43PM
Bee Jay says:

Run Eric--you too, D. Julie isn't even a nice person nor particularly attractive. Why did/do you stay, Eric? (I'm not quite sure if she is separated from her husband.)

Ms. Powell is a bit of a slut who is too full of herself. What a disappointment this book was, and I didn't even wait for it to come out in paperback.

Posted On: Monday, Feb. 15 2010 @ 2:58AM
Bee Jay says:

Run Eric--you too, D. Julie isn't even a nice person nor particularly attractive. Why did/do you stay, Eric? (I'm not quite sure if she is separated from her husband.)

Ms. Powell is a bit of a slut who is too full of herself. What a disappointment this book was, and I didn't even wait for it to come out in paperback.

Posted On: Monday, Feb. 15 2010 @ 2:59AM
Amy says:

Wow! Did the crazy train come into the station and land on the comment section of this page? I'm not a big Julie Powell fan - I didn't read her blog, haven't read the book - but I have watched the movie, which I didn't think much of. I probably won't read Cleaved. But you people are CRAZY!

@Bret Randall - I can assure you that lots of atheists don't cheat on their spouses and lots of Christians do. It has nothing to do with religion.

@Catherine W - fine words from someone using a COMPUTER, to read a book review ON THE INTERNET and then participating in "exposing" yourself by leaving a comment. Puh-leeze! Put that in your orange roaster and uh ... I hope it didn't take you long to come up with that zinger!

@Bee Jay - Did you not read the book description? Why did you buy the book? Why did you read it? Why did you not put it down? And I'm sorry, but it's 2010 - the whole "she's a slut" argument, pretty 1950s redneck, don't ya think? Are you really expecting Eric to respond??

GET A LIFE PEOPLE! Sheesh!

Posted On: Sunday, Feb. 28 2010 @ 3:38PM
FernLaPlante says:

@Katherine W "On a more serious note - Computer technology is ruining mankind - in that we are a narcissistic and overly self-indulgent society." --- says the woman posting on an internet message board.

Posted On: Tuesday, Mar. 9 2010 @ 3:53PM
Clarisa Belongia says:

Okay, I don't agree on a thing or two although the rest appears reliable.

Posted On: Saturday, Mar. 13 2010 @ 6:17PM

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