How ObamaCare Created A Nation of Zombie Sluts: An In-Depth Talk With Kennedy
What made you decide to leave Oregon and move to Los Angeles?
It happened because my parents told me that if I moved out of their house they would give me money and if I stayed in their house I would have to pay them money. It was a pretty easy choice. They didn't want me languishing in obscurity in Lake Oswego, Oregon, working part-time. They were much more enthusiastic about me going to California, going to community college, getting into school, and figuring it out than just being one of those people who lives in their parents' house forever and languishes in dead-end jobs. That was their biggest fear.
How progressive of them.
It was really cool. My parents left Indiana when I was young to move as far west as they could, and they always had that kind of pioneering spirit.
Did you move to L.A. specifically to start your radio career?
No. I really wanted to get into politics. I thought I would be a political consultant; I assumed that I would. I was super into politics and music both in high school. I still am. It's really funny because for Fox Business I cover the political stuff and on my radio show it is all about music. It is really fun that this far down the road those are still the two worlds that I straddle.
Yeah, I took a communications class and they said that we would get extra credit if we interned for a TV or radio station, so I went through the phone book and called, and they were like, "We are interviewing interns next week."
The book discloses very intimate moments and relationships that you had with artists including Trent Reznor, Dave Navarro, Dweezil Zappa, and Johnny Rzeznik. Were any of them apprehensive about the exposure of these stories?
People were pretty cool. I was surprised about how open they actually were because I was expecting some pushback. I found that Dave Navarro and Johnny Rzeznik, in particular, were both very sweet and eager to talk about the past, and I was very happy they were kind. I kind of wanted to keep the modern-day interviews to a minimum. I really tried hard to get to Reznor through mutual friends. We have the same chiropractor.
But it didn't pan out?
He wouldn't do it. He ignored everybody who tried. I know he is a private person when it comes to the press and he probably didn't want to put something on the record. He is a controlling person and he is very particular about what goes out there in the media, which is one of the things I respect about him, and I learned a lot about that. I am much more of a gum-flapper, so I think I am much more comfortable putting out details about my life, even if people look at them unfavorably, because I am trying to give them an honest, vivid description of what happened and what really affected me.
In your book you write about being labeled "The Virgin Kennedy" on KROQ. And somehow that V-tag stuck throughout your MTV stint. Why was your virginity so public?
I was one of the last couple virgins in high school and I just kind of assumed that when I left high school I would get laid, but it didn't happen. The older you get, the harder it is to get rid of it. 'Cause guys--and there were a bunch of guys in the book that said this--they didn't want to be my first. It was a big topic on the radio at KROQ with Kevin and Bean because they were obsessed with it. They were always trying to give it away.
How did they find out you were a virgin in the first place?
[Laughs] Because I'm a gum-flapper. I would always dream about my future husband whenever a rockstar would come into the studio for a Kevin and Bean interview. Eventually--they're filthy people--it would always gravitate toward my special flower.
At MTV I never discussed it in the press or on-air. It was just one of those things that, for whatever reason, was known.The only time I talked about it was on Howard Stern. He got it out of me. I did not go on there looking for it.
How old were you the first time went on the Howard Stern show?
I think the first time I was 20. And I was a huge fan. He was one of the reasons that I not only wanted to get into radio but on the air. He was so much larger than life. I wrote the Michael Jordan chapter because the time that I saw Michael Jordan I had never been so starstruck in my life. But with Howard it was beyond stardom. He was so vitally important to me professionally and for entertainment. And I felt that way about David Letterman growing up. I would stay up late to watch Letterman in junior high and high school, which was a bad idea, it really compromised my grades. I really blame David Letterman for not graduating high school.
You mentioned in your book how Andy Schuon is responsible for your career, since he is the one who hired you at both KROQ and MTV, but who would say was your mentor at MTV?
Kurt Loder truly acted like a mentor. He was someone that I totally looked up to. He was very dignified, a total professional. And I thought that those were all great characteristics. He was very patient when I would ask him advice. He also mentioned that I was a libertarian. He was the first person to mention that I might, in fact, be a libertarian.
Do you share the same political views as your parents?
No, my parents are total Democrats, my mom especially. My mom works on every Democratic presidential campaign. My grandmother loves Bill Clinton so much. She used to call Monica Lewinski "that slut" in her thick Romanian accident. But she really thought Bill Clinton was the second coming of JFK. And my dad is more of a pragmatist, so he is way more of an issue by issue person. He is very fiscally conservative but just despises the hypocrisy in the Republican party.
You're pretty conservative on paper, but are quite wild on the air. How did you balance both extremes?
I know, and I was the impulsive one. I was the one they would dare to do things. I was the one who caused fights. The guys in Anthrax would dare me to do things. Once I saw this couple making out at the bar at the Paramount hotel, so I went up to the guy and I started putting my fingers in his hair, my fingers in his ears, and he thought it was girl he was making out with, which was just awesome. It was one of the best things ever. I was the person you could dare to do stuff, and thank god I was sober. I don't know what would have happened if I drank back then.
You write about how you've always been pretty straight-edge. How did you not fall into that substance trap?
I know, but I didn't. They were kind of separate issues. With my virginity, I just wanted to get rid of it, I wanted to be done--I just couldn't find anybody that I could be in love with. I wanted a boyfriend, I wanted to be in love. I didn't want a one-night stand. I didn't want to worry about would someone call me back. As time went on it just built and built, and that was just the frustrating part. You meet all these rockstars and they just sort of want to be with you, but you're like, "Oh, I thought you wanted to be my boyfriend."