Twins Are Volunteer Flower Girls For Brooklyn Same-Sex Marriages

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Steven Thrasher

More stuff from Steven Thrasher: that's Steve Landis and Julie Irwin, who brought their 4-year-old twins Emily and Sophie to Brooklyn Borough Hall this morning to be flower girls for whoever might need them. They don't even know anyone getting married today! Aw.

Update, 11:52 p.m.: After the jump: a statement from the twins' dad!

A lot of people were wondering whether the girls were in any weddings today; turns out they were! From their father Steve:

We went with our 4 year old twin daughters this morning to serve as volunteer flower girls at Brooklyn's Municipal Building and Borough Hall. We didn't know anyone getting married but thought it would be fun and interesting. It was very exciting and emotional for all. As adults, we view marriage equality as our generation's civil rights struggle and wanted to be there at the making of history and to have our daughters watch and participate in this very special occasion. From their perspective, we explained that yesterday only boys and girls could marry. But today, now boys can marry boys, and girls can marry girls. They understood what we told them and woke up this morning and asked if today was the day for the weddings. They had a great time serving as flower girls.

We arrived at Brooklyn Borough Hall at 845am. Given the size of the crowd, we weren't sure if the girls would get picked but we took lots of pictures with couples. We took photos with a male couple for their ceremonial photos, along with Borough President Marty Markowitz. Near the end, a very nice male couple asked them to join in for their wedding ceremony in Borough Hall. It was the female minister's first ever wedding (she had just been ordained) and I served as a witness. The minister wanted a photo with the "Mazel Tov & Many Nachas" sign, which was pretty amusing. Most importantly, we very much appreciated the male couple allowing us to participate in their wedding and were honored to be a part of their special day. It was an extraordinary moment to see such joy, which was highlighted by their getting so emotional at the end.

Just in: Here's a shot of the twins with Alex Bertrand and Jeremy Price, the first couple who took photos with Emily and Sophie inside Brooklyn Borough Hall.

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And also: here are the twins with grooms Edwin Ramos and Taz Vallas and Pastor Ann Kansfield.
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Brooklyn Photography
Brooklyn Photography

The twins are really cute having them both as flower girls in a same sex marriage. 

Fred McDonald
Fred McDonald

That's wonderful! Good for those kids and their parents!

CheshireKaz
CheshireKaz

Commitment to equality + a day out doing something many little girls adore = very cool parenting. Give this family a medal!

Gary140
Gary140

It's not very complicated: Love is love.

Dave M
Dave M

This makes me very happy.  Way to go parents for raising your kids in a positive way!   And mazel tov to everyone who got married!

Jym Dyer
Jym Dyer

Cute Overload in Brooklyn!  I love it.

Letlizzzzzz
Letlizzzzzz

there are good people, people who want to teach children to love and respect everyone, Bless them !

Sebalsace
Sebalsace

Thanks god there are parents that understood the principle of equality an show the exemple to there children, thank you for that

Dander1964
Dander1964

Very very cool, I am so happy for you all, and to the parents of the twins, Thank You for raising you girls with such open minds!!!

Wiola
Wiola

Heart-warming <3

MrsTarquinBiscuitbarrel
MrsTarquinBiscuitbarrel

Awwww, that was heart-warming!  Marriage equality IS my generation's civil rights frontier; I am happy to have raised my young-adult sons from birth in a neighborhood in which they saw gay couples living matter-of-factly and harmoniously alongside straight ones.

Patti
Patti

Amazing!!!!!!

Kelly
Kelly

Disgusting!! These parents should be ashamed of themselves!!!

paulflorez
paulflorez

How does it feel knowing that in only a few years you'll be looked at the same way society looks at racists who think interracial marraige is "disgusting"? Even Republicans are starting to throw your ilk under the bus. When you have a choice between a Democrat, who supports same-sex marraige, a Republican, who supports same-sex marraige, or a third party that doesn't have enough support to win, who will you vote for?

The irony is that you'll have to make the same choice that Gay Americans had to unfortunately make in the past: either be "out" about who you are and be ostracized for it, or go into the closet. The difference? No one's using the government to criminalize what you do in the privacy of your own home, deny you the chance of adopting a child or criminalize your free speech in the public sphere or take away your right to marry. In other words, there will be no "bigot's rights" movement. At least you'll have the racists to keep you company!

Kelly
Kelly

YA I love being called a racist for saying civil unions between same sex couple is wrong!  YAH!! :) I should not have to be brain washed into believing these civil unions right, because they are not-agree to disagree

Curious
Curious

You should be ashamed of your self for being so close-minded!!!

Kelly
Kelly

No every person has to be brain washed into believing that being gay is right!  So stop with you hatred towards me!  Men should not be having sex with men and same goes for w woman having sex with another woman!  You truly believe that politician thinks gays being married is right?  Your so stupid they only do it to get votes and then take the right away!  It's immoral and goes against the Bible!!  DISGUSTING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Matthew Miller
Matthew Miller

"My grammar is just fine,"

Sadly, your grasp on the English language is so shoddy that you don't know enough about grammar to understand what you're doing wrong.

Your communication skills are so poor that I'm inclined to think you are not an actual religious fundamentalist, but a deep cover liberal, out to troll in the name of the opposition. You're not REALLY that bad at expressing yourself, but are playing the role of someone who is. It's a shady way to fight the gay marriage battle, pretending to be a conservative in order to mock and ridicule them. Shame on you.

RS
RS

So you don't hate "gays", you just don't consider them human beings who should have have the same rights and opportunities as other human beings.  Is that it? 

Re: the article: volunteer flowergirls -- great idea! :)

Wiola
Wiola

You are annoying to everyone here. It's remarkable that you have missed that.

Wiola
Wiola

There sure are grammar errors. I can tell and English is my third language. You poor uneducated woman.

Kelly
Kelly

I do love other people and I never said I hated gays so people need to get that straight simple said a civil union(not marriage) between 2 same sex people is not right.

Kelly
Kelly

Not Baptist you cow-go back to being annoying to someone else.  You make no sense.

Kelly
Kelly

My grammar is just fine, it's just people who can't read English that have the problem-there are no grammar errors so go back to bed now.

Letlizzzzzz
Letlizzzzzz

Kelly, gay is not right for everyone, each person is free to choose who they will love.The bible in the Old testament tells you not to wear clothing made of mixed fibers, no cotton poly for you, and oh no shellfish and no pork, lots of alaws in the bible that no one obeys anymore. The one law that goes before all others " Love one another, as I have Loved you, Love one another"That's my Bible.

Aburrismspt
Aburrismspt

No really - your grammar is awful. What school didn't you graduate from? Hence the whole "stupid" reference... Seriously, your mangled use of the English language is significantly more disturbing than people who love, honor and adore each other. Perhaps focus on your own un-enlightened self before you begin judging others. In the words of the Great Ron White..."you can't fix stupid".

Wiola
Wiola

I don't know what you want really, but I think you should go somewhere else and talk with like-minded people. You could try Westboro baptist church. 

Kelly
Kelly

Wow-try reading English you cow-I'm not being bullied for speaking my mind!

Kelly
Kelly

Oh boo hoo my feelings are hurt-NOT!!

Aburrismspt
Aburrismspt

It's the poor grammar...it's hard to read the "stupid" language fluently.

Wiola
Wiola

I don't understand. Perhaps you could give a translation for those of us who don't speak 'stupid' fluently.

eg82
eg82

Awww, this made me cry. Emily and Sophie are adorable! And how great that their parents wanted them to be part of history.

Mary
Mary

Awwwww! That's the cutest thing ever <3

Garyparhar
Garyparhar

That's sooooooooo disturbing, corupting little kids like that!! What next?? Child pornography, will be acceptable??

Matthew Miller
Matthew Miller

 That some mighty tired copypasta trolling son. Put some thought into it next time.

Chelsea Gast
Chelsea Gast

Are you a moron? What's wrong with you? That has to be the dumbest thing I've ever read in my whole life. I feel sorry for YOUR parents.

Aburrismspt
Aburrismspt

Explain please what gay marriage has to do with child pornography? The two are NOT the same thing and are mutually exclusive. They had a marriage ceremony not sex at the court house. My Lord, you are ignorant.

James Bradford Warnock
James Bradford Warnock

That has got to he the stupidest thing I've ever read on the internet, a bastion for all things stupid.

Moop
Moop

Yes, because taking children to a same-sex wedding is just like forcing them into sexual acts on tape!

Peter Eng
Peter Eng

Moop, I think you forgot to clearly indicate the sarcasm there.

Letlizzzzzz
Letlizzzzzz

you are nuts, just plain nuts. please kneel down and prey to God, you need help.

Aburrismspt
Aburrismspt

Bwwwhhhaaaahhaa....seriously? So, going to a straight wedding is "just like forcing them into sexual acts on tape?" Again - it was a wedding ceremony....just like any other wedding ceremony... Shouldn't speak about things you have no clue about. Moop, I think you know too much about forcing children into sexual acts on tape... shame on you.

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