Knocked Up: Slutfishing in Gloucester with the Rightbloggers

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KNOCKED UP: SLUTFISHING IN GLOUCESTER WITH THE RIGHTBLOGGERS
Culture war ain't what it used to be. Once upon a time, rightwingers enraged by sexual conduct were not shy about offering policy prescriptions: abstinence education, federal money for religious groups, etc. But now they are mainly content to froth and fantasize.
We can see this in rightblogger reactions to the Time magazine story about 17 teenage girls who got pregnant in Gloucester, Massachusetts (population: 30,000). Few serious governmental remedies were proposed; much serious wrath was directed at the young mothers. "For just a little while, I wish I was Supreme Dictator," darkly muttered Jay Tea at Wizbang. "And I would take those girls in Gloucester and make of them an example for the nation." The author would fire and ban from their livelihoods "every single member of the school system," but his real ardour rose at the idea that he could, as Dictator, "sit those girls down and explain the REAL facts of life to them." He would deprive those who had their babies of public money to feed and clothe them; those who had abortions instead, he would "sterilize."
Under the rule of Rachel Lucas, sterilization would be mandatory for all pubescents. Admitting she had no hope of effecting this plan, Lucas devoted most of her post to pure rage at Gloucester's "marauding narcissistic sluts," and Paris Hilton, Britney Spears, et alia. At Pajamas Media, Michele Catalano started more kindly, blaming the parents, the community, and Jamie Lynn Spears, but her fantasy prescription, too, fell on the kids: "Maybe it's time to bring that Scarlet Letter back."
To be fair, some rightbloggers left the girls alone and lashed out at the real culprit: fictional characters. "For The Pro-Choicers Who Loved The Movie Juno," said Corrente, "The Movie Was So 'Fun' and Juno Was So 'Mature'... How do you like those choices in real life?" "They see movies like 'Knocked Up' and 'Juno,'" complained Stop the ACLU. "All of these things combine..." "With films such as 'Juno' scoring well among critics and moviegoers last year... many say teen pregnancy is being glamorized in the media," said the FOX News Health Blog. (Many rightbloggers lauded both these films as pro-life phenomena when they came out, but were unavailable to defend them from the Gloucester charges, perhaps because they were distracted by a treasonous line in an upcoming Pixar cartoon.)
You had to know some of them would tie this to Obama. In "Senator Obama, Meet Gloucester High School," the Fathers & Families Blog attacked Obama because his recent speech on responsible fathers did not place enough blame on women. "Women too are choosing fatherlessness for their children," F&FB declared. "You are making fathers the scapegoat for a deep-rooted problem created by both men and women." At Men's News Daily, Marc H. Rudov ripped into Obama's "misandrist" speech and, referring to Gloucester, asked, "Did Barack Obama speak of this on Mothers' Day?" (As the Time story is datelined June 18, Rudov seemed to credit Obama with the ability to time-travel; so, when Rudov also asked, "Having babies makes a girl a woman, right Senator Obama?" he may have been referring to an Obama speech that hasn't been written yet, or exists in an alternate universe.)
Nor was this the end of what we might call speculative reporting on the incident. Religious rightblogger Dawn Eden suggested, without evidence, that most of the Gloucester girls' parents were divorced or separated. I Perceive said, "A largely Catholic community in Massachusetts encourages all their teens to have babies out of wedlock," and referred to the Time story that launched all this vituperation as "fawning, sympathetic coverage."
Some, sadly, blamed America first. Rod Dreher was on vacation, so it was left to Catholic blogger Mark Shea to issue a blizzard of dire, scholarly quotes, including "America, as a society, is dedicated to the sexual exploitation of women."
Our favorite comment, in a way, came from Michael Graham at The Natural Truth. Graham made reference to Dr. Brian Orr, who wanted to give the Gloucester High kids contraceptives but was rebuffed by their parents and resigned in protest. "Dr. Orr," wrote Graham, "continues to insist that the solution is to make it easier for 15-year-olds to have sex, to treat their sexual activity as normal and acceptable and to give them hormone pills behind their parents back. Instead, what he and the Gloucester schools have done is to encourage the idiotic notions in their girls' heads that they are mature and responsible enough to be making these decisions." We sort of expected rightbloggers to blame parents, children, Obama, and America for gleefully pregnant teens, but blaming the guy who tried to get them to take birth control pills is real outside-the-box thinking, to put it politely. The next time some kid shoots up a high school or college, we look forward to Graham's J'accuse against James Brady.
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America must not ignore the threat gathering against us. Facing clear evidence of peril, we cannot wait for the final proof -- the smoking gun -- that could come in the form of a skank.
Posted On: Monday, Jun. 23 2008 @ 1:51PM"Having babies makes a girl a woman, right Senator Obama?"
I'm pretty certain that Senator Obama recently said that begetting a child you can't raise makes a man a boy, but I don't think he's specifically discussed teen pregnancy, except to say that teen motherhood shouldn't be a punishment for having sex.
Posted On: Monday, Jun. 23 2008 @ 2:20PMGREATEST ARTICLE TITLE EVER! these silly bitches need to watch the baby bloggers on nbc, lol.
Posted On: Monday, Jun. 23 2008 @ 3:13PMYou make good points about bloggers for a socon anti-sex mentality that will hopefully disappear from Congress and the White House...however Marc Rudov's comments you misunderstood. Don't paint Mens News Daily dot com as a right wing blog, because you will find the most devastating anti-right articles there as well. Men's Rights vs Victim Feminism is not a right wing theme. Heck, the victim feminists want to cry rape if someone was drunk and gays are no longer allowed to meet foreign gays online without background checks because of the feminist IMBRA law designed to "protect" "mail order brides" at the expense of the simple right to say hello to someone without US government interference. Being gay and writing for the Voice does not mean it is right to ignore misandry in our society and how politicians pander only to women.
Wait until the feminists get porn banned.
They are aligned with the Christians and they will porn and online dating under much more serious regulation soon.
Posted On: Monday, Jun. 23 2008 @ 3:57PMPoor judgment is expected in MA. They elect Kennedy and Kerry, lean towards Obama.
Posted On: Monday, Jun. 23 2008 @ 4:03PMWhat is baby bloggers?? You mean Baby Borrowers?
Good article. Cracks me up when right wingers blame Juno and Knocked Up. I'm sure they've never even seen them.
Posted On: Monday, Jun. 23 2008 @ 4:15PMThe premature desire to have a child, particularly in ill-equipped, poor, very young girls--is something that has been studied at length and is believed to be related to and/or caused by a real or perceived lack of other life choices. A lot of these girls don't see beyond their little town, don't see college or a rewarding career, etc. The wingnuts don't want to talk about this. Interesting that the right, as usual, blames the girls alone, as if these fetuses were conceived through asexual reproduction (Incidentally, young, equally poorly equipped, low-income boys who want to become fathers have a sense of hopelessness and desperation not dissimilar to the girls they impregnate--they see children as a masculinity boost and status symbol.) Alas, countless sociological, economic, medical, etc. studies show that becoming premature parents puts everyone involved--teens, babies--at a real disadvantage economically, educationally, socially, health-wise, etc. Right wingers should put their money where their mouth is. Abstinence is an utter fantasy of the right, but programs designed to foster interests in teens, daycare so teens can finish school, job training programs, increases in incentives to attend college, etc are all good places to start! Oh, did I already mention? ABSTINENCE DOESN'T WORK!! READ THE STUDIES!! THOSE TEENS WHO DO CLAIM TO ABSTAIN AT SOME POINT DO GO ON TO HAVE SEX, AND THEY ARE LEAST LIKELY OF ALL SEXUALLY ACTIVE YOUNG PEOPLE TO USE BIRTH CONTROL. COMPREHENSIVE SEX EDUCATION WITHOUT APOLOGIES NOW, NATIONWIDE!!!!!!!!
Posted On: Monday, Jun. 23 2008 @ 5:05PMWait until the feminists get porn banned.
Forbid it, almighty God!
Posted On: Monday, Jun. 23 2008 @ 5:39PMMy question re: all these teen pregnancies by choice: who's going to foot the bill? Leftists and feminists natter about 'choice' all day, but then scream for public assistance when the time comes to pay for those 'choices.' Who's going to pay for all of this? You and I, my friend!
The left's only answer to social problems is hand-holding, therapy, claims of victim status, and indentured servitude to government handouts. (Sounds almost like corporate welfare, doesn't it?) Well, here's a solution: these girls want to have babies by choice - LET THEM PAY FOR THEM!
Of course, any deviation from the standard liberal structuralism model, any desire to hold people personally responsible for their own behavior, makes a person a complete ogre. Sorry, I forgot. I'll remember to tow the ideological line next time.
I can't wait to see how pitilessly the state treats the fathers when it goes after them for child support, and how cruelly it treats them in terms of visitation rights. I bet double nickles on the dime no one here expresses an ounce of the same sympathy for the fathers that they expressed for the girls. Also, rumor has it that one of the fathers is a homeless man. If that's true, you can bet the DA will go after him for statutory rape. Of course, it was all his fault, right? He should have known better. (BTW - he should have.) As for the girl he had sex with, she's not capable of rational choice when it comes to sexual activity, right? But she's capable of rational choice when it comes to having a child? I await your logical contortions.
BTW - It's obvious the left is just as guilty of selective quoting as the right. The only thing different is the titles on your playbooks.
Posted On: Monday, Jun. 23 2008 @ 5:43PMNow that you've moved Corrente into the right blogosphere, does that mean that we'll finally get paid?
Also, v racer, MA turned out solidly for Hillary, so please don't Obama us more than is necessary.
Posted On: Monday, Jun. 23 2008 @ 6:15PMThe rightwingers already blamed the Virginia Tech massacre on the Brady Bunch. The argument is that gun control won't stop such massacres from occurring (since the deranged will find access to weapons) but does stop the victims from shooting back and ending it.
Posted On: Monday, Jun. 23 2008 @ 6:24PMDear Jonathan,
The "feminists are aligned with the christian right to ban porn" thing is straight out of 1987/rise of Jerry Falwell ancient history.
sure, many folks don't like porn, but that bit of the culture war is way in the past- and the wankers (dahduh chick) won.
Posted On: Monday, Jun. 23 2008 @ 7:23PMwait a second... will this or won't this be a good first step in outbreeding the great dark Muslimomexifascist hordes?
Posted On: Monday, Jun. 23 2008 @ 9:32PMv racer: Poor judgment is expected in MA. They elect Kennedy and Kerry, lean towards Obama.
Oh for crying out loud, they all vote Republican in Texas, and look how those Texans act, those depraved animals. You know, in Texas all the girls are pregnant before they get out of hi-skool.
No, seriously. This is science. Survey says:
In 2000, teenage birthrates were highest in Mississippi, Texas, Arizona, Arkansas and New Mexico. The states with the lowest teenage birthrates were New Hampshire, Vermont, Massachusetts, North Dakota and Maine.Posted On: Monday, Jun. 23 2008 @ 10:24PM
Righteous comedy from Righteous Bubba in comment #1. Holy Shit.
Posted On: Monday, Jun. 23 2008 @ 11:03PMnow the right wing is to blame for a bunch of dumb broads gettin knocked up????
Posted On: Tuesday, Jun. 24 2008 @ 6:50AMHere's an idea for "change". Give fathers all reproductive and child custody rights with mothers having no say instead of what we have now, including whether or not the mother is allowed to visit her children, force mothers to finance the fathers lifestyle choices or go to prison as deadbeats, give federal taxpayer kickbacks (Title IV section 666) to states for getting mothers out of the house instead of fathers, then have Obama read a speech on Mother's Day about how single fathers are heroes and victims, and how it's all mothers fault for acting like little girls and not like "real mothers". Oh, and lastly, the media must be quick to label anybody who disagrees with his recipe for "change" as a racisexist.
Posted On: Tuesday, Jun. 24 2008 @ 8:50AMThere is alot of finger pointing for blame and there is much to go around.
These young girls think being pregnant and having a baby is glamorous. It used to be a person to look up to was a person of character, achievement etc.
Now it is these ridiculous singers, stars that set a horrible example for
our teens, and even younger.
Notice how 7, 8 year olds and up dress.
And, their parents let them!! What has happened to parents saying, I am not going to let you dress like a trollop,
you are a child not a sexy woman, you
will not wear make up in the second grade and on and on and on. The parents have no more sense than their daughters.
They support this trend.
Let kids be and remain kids until maturity. Parents, wake up!!
The real problem isn’t the stereotypical female “teen-in-trouble". Actually, if US society actually cared about the welfare of children, it might start by removing the “implied” legal standard that children are the sole “property” of their biological mothers from conception to legal adulthood. To begin with, despite having access to over a dozen forms of birth control (men only have two) the “virtuous” gender unilaterally exercises its "reproductive rights" 1.4M (30% of children conceived) times annually (w/o considering the corresponding responsibilities) by aborting, committing infanticide, & outright abandoning their children for purely capricious & arbitrary reasons. Additionally, American women bring about 70% of divorce actions (the “No-Fault” Divorce legal movement was started by the National Association of Women Lawyers in 1960), have children out of wedlock at least 37% of the time, and are invariably “entitled” to subsidized housing, welfare, food stamps, child custody, child support, alimony, etc. At least 4% of all married women commit the most despite form of domestic abuse: Paternity fraud. Women are of course the biggest sexual/financial exploiters of multiple partners. Their near monopoly with respect to child custody results in the fact that women are twice as likely to commit child abuse & neglect. Then there’s the matter of abuse committed by non-biological parents/partners. It would seem, in the absence of evidence of abuse, that default shared custody would be in the best interest of the nation’s children. Unfortunately, in this current state of institutionalized misandry, when all things female are sacrosanct and beyond reproach, maintaining the consequence-free, responsibility-optional lifestyles of irresponsible women children trumps the interests of this nation’s children. They are their mother’s “property” after all. Isn’t gender-feminism wonderful?
Posted On: Tuesday, Jun. 24 2008 @ 10:36AM I have sent out a dozen letters to papers locally and nationally on this issue. Locally my letters are printed w/o question. But, on this subject it appears I was too hard on the girls.
I find it absolutely amazing how feminist have empowered women and girls on everything but controlling their sexual urges. I have said it a hundred times and will say it again. Women are in control of every sexual situation w/ the exception of rape.
A woman can tell you to the second when she is going to have sex next. A man (even Married) can't tell you the year he will have sex.
This society has made equality for women an equality of convenience. You are strong, empowered and equal when things are going good and in your favor. When things look bad and you need an out you are just a weak, poor innocent female.
It also doesn't help when men (especially white men) in positions of power are gutless, neutered or castrated wimps. I have come to the conclusion in this country to be an elected official and be a male you are to leave you balls at home or remove them altogether.
The premature desire to have a child, particularly in ill-equipped, poor, very young girls--is something that has been studied at length and is believed to be related to and/or caused by a real or perceived lack of other life choices. A lot of these girls don't see beyond their little town, don't see college or a rewarding career, etc. The wingnuts don't want to talk about this.
Which reflects a feeling of dependence and helplessness the Left has been all too willing to cultivate in them. It's no wonder they see no way out or reason to even try.
Contrary to your assertion, "wingnuts" have been quite vociferous in their opposition to the cult of victimization the Left tries to inculcate in folks, the younger the better, so as to replenish your voting ranks.
Posted On: Tuesday, Jun. 24 2008 @ 12:22PMFew serious governmental remedies were proposed; much serious wrath was directed at the young mothers.
Right, because "government remedies" is what's going to solve the moral degeneration of our society. Has it ever ocurred to you that "government remedies" might be enabling this kind of thing? That, together with the Left's mainstreaming of the fringe is precisely the reason half of all births today are out of wedlock. But you arrogantly observe that nobody's proposed any "serious government remedies". LOL. You're insane.
David12345:
Just because your parents didn't love you as a child is no reason to blame everything on the Left. What a load of crap. I can picture it now: girlfriend left you-blame it on the Left; got fired at burger flipping joint-blame it on the Left; some higher being giving you the ability to type but not think-blame it on the Left!
If it isn't apparent to you that teen pregnancies is a HUMAN BEING thing, than I suggest you just shove your self-righteous head back up your butt and act like everything is all Right in the world.
I haven't seen an article or news source that pinpoints why these girls thought that raising their children together would be beneficial to said children; it sounds rather cult-like. The fact that one of the fathers is a 24-year old homeless casanova is also just appalling. (It does however, show that there is hope for blame-game simpletons like our friend David.) And having worked with teens (male and female) in urban and suburban settings, the "everyone wants to be loved" excuse is just that, an excuse. While some research has shown the need to feel unconditional love as an outcome of the pregnancy, it isn't a reason while most teens are getting pregnant.
Sadly, one of the reasons I hear most often in response to the question:"So, you guys were knocking boots, what's up with no protection?" is laziness. Protection was available, but due to the spur of the spur-of-the-momentness of teen sex, couples would rather roll the dice than bet on the pill or a condom. As to why they were having sex in the first place, and not working, volunteering, or involved in an after-school activity that could chew up some time? Boredom. Kids are bored, kids have sex.
Perhaps, since this story has garnered the kind of national attention that teen pregnancy usually lacks, and more of the spotlight will be devoted to this very troubling problem that affects all Americans.
By the by, David12345, since you speak for the Right (or as the last eight years have proven Right about nothing!): What type of plans are currently in place to aid in the adoption of unwanted children that are the result of pregnancies, accidently or otherwise? Clocks ticking...
Let me help you: the Right will bitch the loudest when it comes to Pro Life and that every birth counts; unfortunately when the child moves beyond birth, the Right runs away like the kid has the plague. The same types of social programs that are in place to teach teens about sex, and to provide for contraceptives should they be needed, are also the programs that help place children into the adoption process, and into the foster care system (which is in drastic need of a complete makeover itself).
As for replenishing voting ranks...you can probably return safely to Assholeville, where they obviously pile crap a lot higher than most places.
Posted On: Tuesday, Jun. 24 2008 @ 4:45PMYes, I do blame the Left for shattering social taboos that kept social dysfunction such as this to a minimum. What you did instead was to make it fashionable. It started with your so-called "counter culture" movement of the 60s. You pat yourself on the back for it, but this is what you've unleashed. You mainstream the fringe, then you call for "government remedies" for what you've mainstreamed. Amazing.
What does the Right do about children after they're born? A hell of a lot more than the Left does. All you do is TALK about how much you "care", but you DO little about it, waiting, waiting, WAITING for government to do the charity on your behalf. That's a known FACT proven by sociology professor Arthur C. Brooks at Syracuse. Among the things he uncovered in his study:
* Conservative households in America donate 30% more money to charity each year than liberal households, even in spite of lower average incomes
* Conservatives are also more generous in other ways, such as blood donations, and volunteer work. In fact, if liberals gave blood like conservatives do, the blood supply in the U.S. would jump by about 45%
* People who mistrust big government give more than those who rely on the government to take care of the poor. This includes giving and volunteering even to traditionally "progressive causes" such as the arts and the environment
* Conservative "red" states give away far more of their incomes than liberal "blue" states do
* Religious people give away four times more money each year than secularists. This is not just because of giving to churches - religious people are 10 percent more likely than secularists to give money to explicitly nonreligious charities
* Religious people are far more generous than secularists with their time. For instance, a religious person is 57% more likely than a secularist to help a homeless person
* Religious people are also more generous in informal ways, such as giving money to family members, and behaving honestly
* A working poor family without welfare support gives, on average, more than three times as much money to charity each year as a family with the same total income that receives welfare support. In other words, poverty does not discourage charity in America -- but welfare does
* People raised in intact and religious families are more charitable than those who are not. For instance, married parents are 9 percentage points more likely to give money than divorced parents, and 29 points more likely than never-married parents
* Charitable giving spurs the economy: at the national level, a $1 increase in giving per person stimulates a $19 increase in GDP per capita
* Americans give far more money and are far more likely to volunteer their time than citizens of any European country. For example, the average American family gives three and a half times as much as a French family, seven times as much as a German family, and 14 times as much as an Italian family
* Charitable giving and volunteering improve physical health and happiness, and lead to better citizenship -- whereheas many government policies that discourage private charitable behavior have negative effects.
Look it up, Arthur C. Brooks, it's all over the web.
Posted On: Tuesday, Jun. 24 2008 @ 5:47PMhow quickly everyone has forgotten little sexpot jaime lynn spears!
Posted On: Tuesday, Jun. 24 2008 @ 5:52PMPoor David,
I'm fairly certain that the more you continue to use the phrase "mainstreaming the fringe" the less and less it will make sense. It probably looks great scribbled all over the walls of your basement apartment at the homestead, but in reality in sounds like a talking point you ditto-heads are so good at thrusting upon society until people think it means something.
Poor David speaks of facts, and then presents a nice worn out group of "facts" from Arthur Brook's research on charity. I'm not really sure where you are going with the relationship between teen pregnancy and charity, but I'm sure in future posts you'll let us know by throwing some "facts" at the wall and seeing what sticks. (Again, another specialty of Republican truth twisting and fact bending.)
I don't recall mentioning anything about talking about what should be done with children that may not be unwanted once they are born (soft spot, there David?), only merely pointing out the cold, hard truth that the elephant riders of the world want nothing to do with these children.
Its amazingly predictable that Poor David would go right to the government charity card. How totally par for the course. That's the best you can do? All you can come up with is the cliche that citizens on the Left choose to wait for government to take action? And since you couldn't possibly, factually refute the lack of Rightist initiatives to aid children, such as those that will be born to 16+ teens in Massachusetts (and tens of thousands nationwide), you seemingly equate a government's responsibility to aid its people through a broken welfare system with donations made under the auspices of charity?
Let me lay this out there one more time: You thrown a red herring into the debate that's bigger than the fish Santiago tried to reel in throughout "The Old Man and the Sea?" Shit, that is lame. You have totally confused a government's responsibility to its people (the concept of the welfare state dates back to at least Rome, no matter how broken our system is) with the finski I'm dropping in the money basket at church on Sundays.
I overestimated your intelligence, or lack thereof. Do you work at Kinko's? You are great at copying and dropping down other people's ideas and "facts," yet you have none of your own. How very conservative of you.
Try to stick to the point of the commentary: why did sixteen girls choose to get pregnant and then decide to raise these children together? It is only after their story has come out, that we as a society can see their point of view and try to understand their thinking. Don't hide behind the pompousness and virtue of being religious, or charitable. (And even then, try and use the argument correctly.)
This country is currently facing a plethora of problems, ranging from economical to social, to educational, and so on. We need to look at what is going on, and figure out why it is taking place. It is far too easy to simply point at what appears to be an eight-year run by the worst --and that bears repeating-- WORST administration in our country's short history. Instead, we should try to look at solutions that can be addressed in the next two to six years. Realistic solutions.
Poor David: in case you didn't know --and judging by how unwillingly you are to try and see the big picture, you don't-- a solution is the answering or completing of a problem. Such as: The current initiatives offered by the welfare system are NOT solutions to teen pregnancy, but there are solutions on both sides of the political fence that must be looked at seriously in order to begin to change the social degradation that is affecting people of both red and blue states.
What does the Right do about children after they're born?
Hmm ...
Summer camp with Eric Rudolph ?
As one of the authors cited, I feel I need to clarify one point: I said that if these girls want public assistance, they should be sterilized UNTIL THE AGE OF 21. If you're taking MY money, dammit, then I want some assurance that it won't be merely the first in a long line of children I'll be put on the hook for.
And, while I muttered about being "dictator," I ended my piece about this being yet another reason why I should never be entrusted with REAL power -- a sentiment that the Voice apparently shares with me.
J.
Jay Tea
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www.wizbangblog.com
"Few serious governmental remedies were proposed; much serious wrath was directed at the young mothers."
The remedy for bad or stupid or thoughtless personal behavior is not a "governmental remedy" whether "serious" or not. This columnist reveals himself as a self-satisfied dope when he mocks the people who are actually concerned about the well-being of these high school girls. This column is just shallow mockery, embarrassing.
Posted On: Wednesday, Jun. 25 2008 @ 6:10AMDavid12345:
Nice ad hominem attacks. It's pretty obvious the left and its sub-groups haven't a leg to stand on in this argument. Go back to your playground. The rest of us have grown-up things to do.
Posted On: Wednesday, Jun. 25 2008 @ 8:03AMi wish i had a knocked-up 17-yr-old girlfriend; we could live good off the govt.
Posted On: Wednesday, Jun. 25 2008 @ 9:50AMsakara:
Actually, she'd live well off the government, not you. You'd be hounded for child support. If you were estranged from the mother, you'd probably also be denied visitation. And god help you if you lost your job and couldn't pay the child support for one or two months. They'd put you in jail for a year with rapists and murderers, and then when that year was up, they'd demand the months of child support from when you were in jail. Of course, you wouldn't have that money, because you were in jail during that time. So they'd put you back in jail, or maybe suspend your driver's license so that you couldn't drive to a job in the first place.
Then again, if you were a seventeen year old mother, you could do the following: have a child by 'choice.' Alienate the father, and then trot down to the welfare office so that you can get Big Momma Government to shell out the cash to support your 'choice.'
Isn't second and third wave feminism awesome? I especially love the "When things work out for us, we'll accept responsibility, when things don't, we'll shirk it off on everyone else" part.
And no, BTW, I'm not a spurned husband or an estranged father. I'm just someone who was raised to think that we're all responsible for our own decisions.
Posted On: Wednesday, Jun. 25 2008 @ 12:31PM"And, while I muttered about being "dictator," I ended my piece about this being yet another reason why I should never be entrusted with REAL power
NONE would be far better.
Posted On: Wednesday, Jun. 25 2008 @ 12:54PMGreat article, that rachel chick is a little loony. Maybe she's jealous the teens are getting some and she can't snare a hair. But seriously, those girls kind of messed up their life, if only they would have had "the baby borrowers" for them to watch.
Posted On: Wednesday, Jun. 25 2008 @ 1:42PMYeah, Baby Borrowers would help them...look at those immature kids trying to raise even younger kids they hardly know... everyone under 30 could learn something from that goofy show
Posted On: Wednesday, Jun. 25 2008 @ 2:49PMI can't believe this. This isn't about RIGHT VS. LEFT! It's about the fact that it's a DUMBASS IDEA FOR TEENAGERS TO HAVE KIDS!!! Always has, always will be.
If you had a teenager, and she approached you and said, "Mom, I want to have a kid," your answer would be, "Oh my god, that's a dumbass idea!!" It doesn't matter if you're a hard right-winger or as left as can be. NO ONE in their right mind wants their teenage daughter or son to be a parent!! So why is everyone arguing about the freakin' obvious?
Some people here mentioned the movie Juno. I watched that movie very closely. I specifically remember the parts where her parents called her an irresponsible dumbass. Do you know why they called her that? Because she was an irresponsible dumbass!!
The answer is to keep teenagers from having kids. Not by some draconian measures. Not by holding their hands and mollycoddling them and offering them therapy. Not by implementing yet another liberal pseudo-fix or moronic conservative abstinence program - but by teaching them that they are responsible for their actions!
Here's an idea. Provide welfare for one child born out of wedlock. That's the cutoff. Any more kids born out of wedlock, and you're on your own. You'd see the illegitimate birth-rate cut in half in less than two years. No money, no kiddies! As far as sex education in schools, that should take two days. One day describing how sex and pregnancy works, the next day spent on STD's. Two full days, cancel all other classes. That's all you need. Then put a big ass bowl of condoms in every nurse's office, one dollar a piece. Let's start teaching these kids that 'aint nothing free in this world.
Posted On: Wednesday, Jun. 25 2008 @ 4:55PM"...sterilized UNTIL THE AGE OF 21"
And what do you suppose that plan would look like? Or is it only worth considering when you force contraception?
Also, the admission isn't 'Mom, I want to have a kid,' that would be an easy response. The discussion is more like "Mom, I'm [or she's] pregnant." Then what do you do?
K
Posted On: Wednesday, Jun. 25 2008 @ 6:45PM"Also, the admission isn't 'Mom, I want to have a kid,' that would be an easy response. The discussion is more like "Mom, I'm [or she's] pregnant." Then what do you do?"
The point is not to get there in the first place. But I don't know, what's your answer? Do you have any other answer besides, "Yeah, so what do you do when it does happen?" That's not an answer or a solution. I get that all the time. All I hear is excuses and pandering from liberals, and draconian measures from conservatives. One side wants to create a socialist utopia, the other wants re-build America into a bad version of Logan's Run.
Tell you what; go ahead and have your illegitimate kids. Then get a job and support them yourselves. That's the America I was raised in.
I have to say as a very liberal egalitarian female, I resent the comments you've made about Fathers & Families and Mens News Daily. I suggest you do your research before you publish your next article on anyone involved in the fathers and/or equal parenting movement.
My articles are published on Mens News Daily, so you can't say they're right wing. I work closely with Fathers & Families so you can't say they're a right wing organization either.
The opponents to equal custody routinely flood the media with lies about who we are and what we do. You shouldn't fall for it. I expected more from you. Do your own research!
Posted On: Thursday, Jun. 26 2008 @ 12:58AMIf we could properly fund abstinence only education in this country, we could tell every teen "Just say no to sex." Look how well that worked in the war on drugs!
Giving birth control to teenagers isn't giving them permission, you dopes. It's acknowledging reality. Telling teenagers not to fuck is like telling clouds not to rain.
Posted On: Thursday, Jun. 26 2008 @ 2:09AMPosted by: W. Kiernan at June 23, 2008 10:24 PM:
"In 2000, teenage birthrates were highest in Mississippi, Texas, Arizona, Arkansas and New Mexico. The states with the lowest teenage birthrates were New Hampshire, Vermont, Massachusetts, North Dakota and Maine."
And I've seen the women from New Hampshire, Vermont, Massachusetts, North Dakota and Maine too. Seriously, a homeless guy? If that isn't "girl power" I don't know what is. Why not some balding guy who hangs out at Hooters?
Posted On: Thursday, Jun. 26 2008 @ 9:12AMI am a 60 year old fan of the Fathers & Families Blog but have never voted for a Republican presidential candidate (or anyone politically to the right of Republicans).
Characterizing Fathers & Families as a right wing blog is inexcusable ignorance at best.
Posted On: Thursday, Jun. 26 2008 @ 11:36AMTeri Stoddard:
Thank you very much for your comments. I share your views and I'm a strong supporter of Fathers and Families.
I think that a lot of this 'freedom of choice' spiel from the left and from feminists isn't about 'choice' at all. It's really about diminishing the role of fatherhood (except when it comes to paying for things). You may or may not agree, but there it is.
Posted On: Thursday, Jun. 26 2008 @ 11:49AMI'm *from this town* ... I think that the local perspective has been missed in all the rush to make a salacious story of it.
http://randazza.wordpress.com/2008/06/25/gloucester-and-its-pregnancy-pact-a-natives-perspective/
Posted On: Thursday, Jun. 26 2008 @ 9:35PM'Local perspective' isn't the point, and I don't think it's that important, unless one ascribes to the liberal structuralist point of view and nothing else. It's a NATIONAL issue. Needless to say, the majority of teenage mothers are from low-income neighborhoods. That will soon change. We will start seeing more teenage mothers from middle and upper class neighborhoods as the 'Our choice, everyone else's responsibility' movement gathers momentum.
I truly believe that this problem (and it is a PROBLEM, for all of us), is an offshoot of the whole 'Our choice,' aspect of second wave feminism. Yes, it's your choice, but the world doesn't revolve around you. There is, well, the REST OF US, and the KID YOUR BRINGING INTO THIS WORLD. Second and third wave feminists, in their narcissism, forget this. True egalitarians don't.
Posted On: Friday, Jun. 27 2008 @ 3:14PMFirst wave feminists blamed all women's problems on men.
Second Wave feminist blamed all the World's problems on men.
Third wave feminists blame all men's problems on men.
Is anyone starting to see a pattern here?
Posted On: Saturday, Jun. 28 2008 @ 5:14AMI still want to know which feminist along the way forgot to read the manual. Equal means equal.
Thanks Jonathon. Hope you'll be in DC August 15-16 for the 2008 Family Rights Festival. dcfestival2008.com
Posted On: Sunday, Jun. 29 2008 @ 7:57AM"(As the Time story is datelined June 18, Rudov seemed to credit Obama with the ability to time-travel; so, when Rudov also asked, "Having babies makes a girl a woman, right Senator Obama?" he may have been referring to an Obama speech that hasn't been written yet, or exists in an alternate universe.)"
Nice try Roy. You should actually read what Marc Rudov wrote. He was spot-on.
Like all left wing lunatics you cannot debate on the issues intelligently-you can only slime the messenger in an attempt to slime the message.
That left wing trick has lost all effectivenes except for those sharing your kool-aid.
Marc Rudov rocks!!!
Interesting that no one seems to mention that 12 out of the 17 girls didn't go to Gloucester High School at all. Rather, on various programs in various schools throughout the Gloucester area. Yet of course I'd expect nothing out of the national media than to extract a piece of news and amplify it to international attention. Almost funny.
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