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By Rend Smith, Friday, Apr. 17 2009 @ 12:44PM
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What looks to be the Facebook page of New York City resident and masseuse Julissa Brisman, who was murdered Tuesday in a Boston hotel room where she was meeting either a massage client or a john (people are still speculating), is still up and running.

On the friend list of the profile that bears Brisman's name is Jeramie Gray, who seems to have gotten a few wall posts from Brisman the night she was killed.

"Julissa and I were good friends from high school," Gray wrote to us via the social networking site. "After high school we lost touch. We recently found each other on Facebook about a month ago. Since then we have been trying to meet up to hang out and talk about the old times."

Gray suggested they get together that fateful Tuesday night. His page displays four wall posts ostensibly written by Brisman about five hours before her murder (the site displays time stamps) -- cheery notes that amount to sorry, not tonight, dude. "I'm like tired for the 1st time in like forever," one of Brisman's posts reads.

Gray says he figured "she was going home to pass out." But the twenty-six year-old didn't spend the rest of her evening in bed; instead, she went to the Copley Marriott Hotel, where she was shot to death.

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Comments (35)

MDawg says:

She dead? Crazy.

Posted On: Friday, Apr. 17 2009 @ 7:00PM
vincent viola says:

i was a friend of miss brisman whom i met at a aa meeting...i am devasted at what whappened to this young lady...i was in florida when i found out...im trying to find info on her burial so i can say good bye to a dear friend...im crying as im writing this because deep down she was sweet young young fighting demons everyday of her life...she wanted to workout last week but i blew it off because i was going away....if anybody has any info i would deeply apprecciate it....vviola32NYC.RR.COM......917-805-1083...VINNIE VIOLA

Posted On: Monday, Apr. 20 2009 @ 7:25PM
vincent viola says:

i was a friend of miss brisman whom i met at a aa meeting...i am devasted at what whappened to this young lady...i was in florida when i found out...im trying to find info on her burial so i can say good bye to a dear friend...im crying as im writing this because deep down she was sweet young young fighting demons everyday of her life...she wanted to workout last week but i blew it off because i was going away....if anybody has any info i would deeply apprecciate it....vviola32NYC.RR.COM......917-805-1083...VINNIE VIOLA

Posted On: Monday, Apr. 20 2009 @ 7:26PM
VINCENT VIOLA says:

MY CORRECT EMAIL ADDRESS IS VVIOLA3@NYC.RR.COM....CAME UP WRONG IN MY LETTER...MY APOLOGIES..VINNIE VIOLA

Posted On: Monday, Apr. 20 2009 @ 7:30PM
VINCENT VIOLA says:

MY CORRECT EMAIL ADDRESS IS VVIOLA3@NYC.RR.COM....CAME UP WRONG IN MY LETTER...MY APOLOGIES..VINNIE VIOLA

Posted On: Monday, Apr. 20 2009 @ 7:31PM
Scott B says:

Vincent:
I'm sorry about our loss of Julissa. Please try to remember not to break her (or your) anonymity "at the level of press..etc" This format counts as "press".
Thanks,
Scott B NYC
AA member

Posted On: Tuesday, Apr. 21 2009 @ 1:13PM
Deleon says:

I have know julissa for 7 years she was one of my best friends..she was the type that when u was down she cheer u back up ..,.she will be miss...I'll see u later loquita

Posted On: Tuesday, Apr. 21 2009 @ 9:23PM
Alex says:

are you kidding me? the only reason this story made national headlines everywhere is because the victim was a 'pretty white girl'.....you think if it was a 210 pound jamaican girl murdered off craiglist anyone would ever hear about it? who even cares? why does this broad deserve more attention than any other random victim? Ohh yeah thats right....because America loves the 'Young, Hot caucasian female in distress' story.

Posted On: Wednesday, Apr. 22 2009 @ 10:47AM
Steve says:

That's right Alex, the ones you never seem to get next to..

Posted On: Wednesday, Apr. 22 2009 @ 2:07PM
Anonymous says:

Alex, first she's not white, she's Domenican you ahole and why all the press?? Serial killer on the loose!!? Duh?

Posted On: Wednesday, Apr. 22 2009 @ 2:10PM
robert says:

What a shame for anyone to die in this fashion. No matter what category they may fall in or belong to. One of the things that I learned during my first years in AA was “If you don’t want to slip, stay out of slippery places.” Advertising outcall massages on craigslist is about as slippery as it gets. Ultimately this young lady paid a very high price for her life style choice. Not only do I feel bad for her, but also her family. It would be hell to lose a daughter and then see her dragged through the press. My thoughts go out to them for their loss.

Posted On: Wednesday, Apr. 22 2009 @ 2:47PM
Sarah says:

Thoughts and prayers go out to her family. Words can not even express.

Posted On: Wednesday, Apr. 22 2009 @ 2:54PM
Anonymous says:

I went to JR Jigh School. For your information she was Latina. Her mother Hispanic and her Dad Jewish.

Posted On: Wednesday, Apr. 22 2009 @ 4:19PM
Judge Goode says:

Why was Julissa's roomate checking her email the morning after the murder before the NYC or Boston police did? Is Julissa's roomate a friend of Tiffany B. Montgomery formerly of the BU School of Medicine who didn't like Philip Markoff. Maybe he rejected her advances and now has colluded with Julissa's roommate (whom the roommate may have hated) to Hang Philip Markoff and frame and set him up in a very sophisticated fashion. Maybe the roommate and Tiffany planted the gun and other evidence when Markoff was out,logged on to his email from another computer, invited him to those hotels to get his picture while, at the same time, someone else was murdering Julissa. I'll bet if one pursued it, they could find pictures of other people who appeared at both Boston hotels within the same time frame as Markoff's appearances. Something is missing here. Why does n engaged 2nd year med student with the world in his hand go around murdering and robbing the weak? Innocent until proven guilty is how it should be. If he did it then he'll get his but the defense will show the shadows of a doubt here unless his fingerprints are on the gun or his DNA under Julissa's fingernails. Meanwhile I'd take a look at motives for the roommate and the med school drop out, Tiffany B. Montgomery who was quoted as saying she is not even remotely surprised" that authorities have charged Markoff with the murder of Julissa Brisman.

Posted On: Thursday, Apr. 23 2009 @ 11:03AM
Slinky says:

What really amazes me is that people are so stupid that they think she flew all the way to Boston just to give a massage! This woman was a hooker! If she were black or had less status the police probably would'nt even look for the killer! It's already public knowledge that she would travel to parties where she would run around topless and it would be a safe bet that in these hotel meetings she would be bottomless as well. Most states require a masseuse to be licensed was she?

Posted On: Thursday, Apr. 23 2009 @ 11:51AM
Slinky says:

What really amazes me is that people are so stupid that they think she flew all the way to Boston just to give a massage! This woman was a hooker! If she were black or had less status the police probably would'nt even look for the killer! It's already public knowledge that she would travel to parties where she would run around topless and it would be a safe bet that in these hotel meetings she would be bottomless as well. Most states require a masseuse to be licensed was she?

Posted On: Thursday, Apr. 23 2009 @ 11:51AM
Anonymous says:

One thing I learned from going to AA, most of them live a secret life. Sorry for the death, but she knew what she was doing. You don't travel just to give that kind of services. She was more like a call girl. She went to Atlantic group meetings. My experience nothing is anonymous.I know several people who attend meetings and have a double life. She knew the risks, yet she wanted to make money. When will people realized the truth about all this. Hide your real identity in order for people to feel sorry for you.

Posted On: Friday, Apr. 24 2009 @ 7:23AM
Peter Mirton says:

"Alex, first she's not white, she's Domenican."

Ummm, there are alot of white people in the Dominican Republic.

Posted On: Friday, Apr. 24 2009 @ 9:35AM
Jenya says:

She was Brazilian and German, And why is it that people are so ignorant to make assumptions about her life? She was a good girl trying to turn her life around! Happy Birthday Julissa...You'll always be in our hearts

Posted On: Friday, Apr. 24 2009 @ 1:06PM
Jean says:

What ever she had planned for the evening is her business, who are any of us to judge her. She was murdered by a punk who had everything most could only dream of having, he is the devil and will pay for what he has done to this poor young women and all how cared about her. Think about it, he was going to be a DR. Dr. are supposed to save lives not take them. God help us all!
Julissa, you are safe now.

Posted On: Friday, Apr. 24 2009 @ 5:12PM
jean says:

One other thing..there are many angry people out there: ... slinky and alix..get a life.

Posted On: Friday, Apr. 24 2009 @ 5:16PM
vinnie says:

HAPPY BIRTHDDAY JULISSA...

Posted On: Saturday, Apr. 25 2009 @ 11:05AM
Trey Hemingway says:

Regardless of what she did and did not; bottom line, we've got someone who was murdered. It does not make a difference whether she was a masseuse or more. No one deserves to die period.
Unless someoneone's understand somebody else circumstances in life, no one should come forward and judge others. We are not in Iran here where we can stone others for what they've done.
Rest in piece girl and my heart goes to the family who knew her for who she was and not what perhaps pretended to be.

Posted On: Sunday, Apr. 26 2009 @ 11:10AM
Jillian says:

Stop With The Race Comments!!
Actually! Julissa Was SPANISH NOT WHITE !!!

Posted On: Monday, Apr. 27 2009 @ 7:14PM
CreamyCoffee says:

For all the RACIST IDIOTS who never went to school. I am Dominican and have a dadughter with a white man. She is white looking as Julissa is except y daughter looks Austrian like her dad. Dominicans ae biracial MIXED WHITE SPANIARD AND AFRICAN- THE INDIANS THERE DIED OUT IN 1503. AND BLACK AND WHITE MANY TIMES LOOKS WELL- WHITE. YOU CAN BE DARK AND CARRY WHITE GENES THANKS TO SYSTEMATIC MIXING AND SLAVERY AND SPANISH IS WHITE FROM SPAIN, LATINO LIKE ANGLO AMERICAN IS A PERSON WHO IS A PRODUCT OF THAT CULTURE IN THE AMERICAS- THEY ARE NOT WHITE PER SE. HISPANIC MEANS OF THE IBERIAN PENINSULA AND ITS CULTURE. OMG REAAAAD PEEOPLE READ... AND FOR ALEX I bet you would be the type to one drop her and call her black if she told u her hereitage yet when you post you call her white.... which one is it--signed. Sexy mulatto Dominican with a white daughter.

Posted On: Tuesday, Apr. 28 2009 @ 11:24AM
...... says:

I guess it has to be asked. How many claim to know Julissa but do not know her race? Her first name obviously sounds Hispanic, and last name doesn't but - it is stated by one person that she is Jewish and Dominican, and another that she was German and Brazilian. Only someone who knows her can pinpoint her race, meaning only one of you is correct. In the end it doesn't matter what her "occupation" is, no one deserves to be murdered as such.

Posted On: Wednesday, Apr. 29 2009 @ 11:26PM
,..... says:

Oh and FYI. Being Hispanic and White does NOT make you only Hispanic - YOU ARE MIXED.

Posted On: Wednesday, Apr. 29 2009 @ 11:39PM
KIRA 2431 says:

Juge Goode, I have to say that there is not too much I can say. You are just a complete moron. yeah he was set up. i think I hear the short bus beeping for you. Dumbass!

Posted On: Thursday, Apr. 30 2009 @ 7:49PM
Anon says:

He's guilty, they found his DNA and he's going to jail, period.

See ya loser, don't want to be ya. Hope you rot in jail and then hell for what you did.

Posted On: Friday, May. 1 2009 @ 1:56AM
Anonymous says:

We all make choices for one reason or another. Sometimes you do what you have to do to make a living. As long as it's not hurting anyone, why judge it? Man, woman, whatever the age, race, profession may be. I think the discussion has detracted from the point that this is a murder case.

Posted On: Friday, May. 1 2009 @ 7:07AM
Linda H says:

Can someone please tell me where they found the DNA? Anon?

Last time I heard it took days to get it. Normally 2 months. But they were putting a rush on it. That was 1 week ago and it is not anywhere to be found.

Anon? DNA? Opinion or Truth?

Posted On: Saturday, May. 2 2009 @ 10:32AM
Anonymous says:

Kinda funny now you hear all this news and can find all these pictures of Julissa on the web... she always admired Marilyn Monroe and wanted to be famous with a tragic life... well here you go... if it wasn't for this she would be another dead beat wannabe model! Now she is famous!!!

Posted On: Thursday, May. 14 2009 @ 7:45AM
Precision40 says:

Did Julissa ever live in OKC? Like maybe last year or the year before that? I remember seeing a girl named Julissa posting on Backpages and her pics from what I remember look EXACTLY like the Julissa who was murdered. We talked back and forth a couple of times about getting together, but it never materialized. I hope it wasn't her.

Anybody know?

Posted On: Monday, Jun. 22 2009 @ 10:02AM
Laurie says:

She wasn't Brazilian and German. See for yourself : http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2009/04/26/48hours/main4969048.shtml

She was of Dominican ancestry. She was a white Dominican female. Sad way to die no matter what she was (hooker , non hooker, who are we to judge?). RIP to her.

Posted On: Monday, Sep. 21 2009 @ 6:50PM
Laurie says:

For the morons posting here: Hispanic IS NOT a race, it's an ethnicity/background. There are only 3 races, White, Black, and Asian. Julissa was obviously a white Dominican female. Her race is White her ethnicity is Dominican. How hard is that to comprehend?

"The daughter of Dominican immigrants Julissa Brisman"

http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2009/04/26/48hours/main4969048.shtml

Posted On: Monday, Sep. 21 2009 @ 6:54PM

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