Ask a Casting Director: Wife Swap
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"Mad Sally" Baur moves into her new life as a professional organizer (ABC/Michael Rubenstein)
Eye spoke recently with Dominique Bouchard, the casting director for ABC reality series Wife Swap, where wives swap husbands and children for two weeks to experience life in a drastically different environment. With participants in the past including families of competitive eaters, pirates, child-pageant advocates, and a wife who trains cage fighters, one can only imagine the casting gets fairly interesting.
How do you find some of these families, like the pirate or freak-show families? There's definitely a low percentage we actually choose that apply within the show. Families like the pirates, we come up with an idea of people we want to find. Then we try to contact different organizations and put the word out there. A casting AP would be assigned to that particular project of finding a family like that. We offer a finder's fee—so if we contact a particular organization, by helping us out they are going to receive the fee. And the families get a financial honorarium for being on the show.
We're going to have an episode coming up where we wanted to find a family of little people. So for an organization like the LPA [Little People of America], we might have given them the information to spread around.
Can you tell me more about the pairings? It always seems like the conservative family is paired with the unconventional family, the family with the wife who does all the work is paired with the family with the husband who does all the chores. Without giving our secrets away, I would say it’s not about pairing opposites. It’s really not. We look at the family, what one family could teach another, and what they could possibly learn.
Have there ever been any wife swaps where the husbands wound up with the other wife? Divorces? Any where members of each family still keep in touch? From season 3, there are definitely one or two families who are in contact. I have heard that through the grapevine; I wouldn’t give out who those families are. Divorces—as far as we know, no. But if someone from season 1 got a divorce, I wouldn't know for sure. As far as a permanent wife swap—absolutely not.
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